If you have friend or loved one that you feel have not crossed over you can say the following prayer filling in the blanks put their names in remember male or female many people who pass away are scared of the fact there is not another side and that there is no one waiting for us up there.

Please  ________________  remember the following thing. It is real that there is a place for you on the other side please listen to the words as they are said to you. Remember that you are not alone. You have guides, angels, and family members who have come to help you cross. You might have refused for years even centuries to be at peace. These people are wanting you to raise up and relax into their arms  and into the house of God.

Please repeat the following as you journey to heaven.
I forgive myself for the fear of moving forward with the letting the physical life on earth go. Having this knowledge will my soul in an involvement  for moving up the spiritual ladder into the journey of the other side.

As you journey of taking your soul the left from the body becoming fully healed and looking back upon the life it had led and celebrating that life. Then you choose to watch over those important to you as a soul in heaven talking them in their dreams.  I am so happy for all that you have seen in your journey watching over them.  Amen